Why Christian families need everyday faith, not new year’s resolutions

As the post-Christmas routine returns, it’s consistency—not motivation or goals—that shapes lasting faith in our homes. Anna Hawken shares how small, daily habits help children and parents grow deeper roots in God together

Every January, when the decorations come down, and the bank balance is seemingly empty, our attention naturally drifts towards the coming year. Perhaps we might even look forward to a sense of routine and normality, after weeks of travelling, family gatherings and a whole host of nativities and parties (with a new costume each time to boot). Sometimes the post-Christmas rush can feel like a bumpy crash landing.

It’s a challenge, and an opportunity I face every year with my family. When the nights draw in, and there are no twinkling lights to lift our spirits, it can feel like the long slog of winter is really just beginning. But this is also a powerful and poignant moment to reflect on what a normal life of faith looks like without all the Christmas extras.

so many new years’ resolutions start out strong, but falter come February

Consistency over motivation

The classic trap we fall into is trying to do it all in our strength, even our relationship with God. If we’re not careful, it can become a tick-box exercise. With every new year, I think there’s a real danger in the constant drive to better ourselves. There’s not a lot of grace in ……