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    Olly Goldenberg: I am so grateful to be able to pass on the spiritual legacy of my parents to my children

    2025-05-20T09:26:00Z

    I was born into a non-Christian home. My Dad was a nominal Jew, raised orthodox in Sudan he moved to the UK and had long since left the synagogue behind. My Mum, a gentile, would have called herself a Christian, but this was more a matter of culture than heart submission to the Lord. More a wedding and funeral follower than a devoted disciple of Christ. That all changed when I was 4 years. Both my parents became Christians around the same time attending church became a regular part of our lives.

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    What’s the point of praying?

    2025-05-20T08:25:00Z

    Praying with our children is one of the most meaningful and powerful parts of parenting. In fact, teaching them how to pray is quite possibly the most significant thing we could ever teach them! But it is often one of the hardest habits to help them form.

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    Walking the talk: Six things Christian parents can do to raise children who care for God’s creation

    2025-05-19T08:25:00Z

    It’s Walk to School Week this week. Children throughout the UK will be encouraged to walk to school every day of the week. The aim is for children to learn about the benefits of walking for mental and physical health, road safety, and the planet. 

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    Reframing our failures: Good enough parenting is good enough

    2025-05-16T08:25:00Z

    I grew up in an era where pass and fail were clearly defined. Teachers would liberally use red pen to denote wrong answers (especially in my maths book), and there was no sign of EBI (“even better if”) or just a coloured dot alongside answers that weren’t right. 

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    Addicted, anxious and online: What every Christian parent needs to know about social media and wellbeing

    2025-05-15T09:25:00Z

    When 15-year-old Anna decides to embark on a fitness regime, she soon discovers social-media posts offering nutrition advice. Embracing her new healthy lifestyle enthusiastically, she begins sharing her progress online. Within weeks, she finds herself scrolling through dieting regimens. As well as working out at the gym, she begins limiting her food intake. Her social media use quickly spirals from anorexia and bulimia sites onto pages promoting self-harm. 

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    Five ways Christian parents can teach their youth and children about generosity

    2025-05-15T08:25:00Z

    Nurturing a spirit of generosity in children and young people is integral to encouraging their faith. The more they understand God’s lavish generosity towards them, the more likely they are to want to be generous themselves. A generous spirit will, in turn, deepen their faith as they witness the positive impact of their generosity on the world around them. Parents clearly have a pivotal role to play in shaping their children’s attitudes towards giving—but how exactly can they do this?

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    Safeguarding and intergenerational relationships: Helping Christian parents explore the tension

    2025-05-14T08:25:00Z

    You are running your first-ever Messy Church session. After months of planning, training the team, advertising the date, and talking to everyone you know about coming along to the launch, people start to arrive, and your church hall is now looking full. You are busy welcoming people and ensuring that your team has everything they need when you notice that your welcome desk team member is waving you over. You weave your way across the room to check that they are okay.

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    Mental health and food: How Christian parents can boost the well-being of their children through the food they eat

    2025-05-13T08:25:00Z

    I love the scene in the film Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory when the winners of the Golden Ticket enter a room where the grass, trees, and everything visible is edible. I fully understand why, despite the warning, one of the children drinks from the chocolate river.

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    This Mental Health Awareness week, Christian parents can turn to the Bible for help with the well-being of their children

    2025-05-12T08:25:00Z

    As Christian parents, we’re probably used to wanting to find out what the Bible has to say about the issues facing us and our families. We want to use scripture to help us navigate the world, and whilst sometimes we can easily see what the Bible has to say on a topic (there is an abundance of wisdom on navigating conflict well, for example), at other times it can be a little trickier. 

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    When Sephora meets Scripture: Helping our girls see true beauty

    2025-05-07T08:25:00Z

    It was November 2024, that time of year when I ask my children for their Christmas lists to avoid any disappointment on 25th December. But this year felt somewhat different with my three daughters. As I scanned their lists, I found myself searching in vain for the familiar comforts of LOL Dolls, Barbie Dreamhouses, and Lego Friends sets. Instead, I was met with a line-up of brand names completely foreign to me — Laneige, Bubble, Rhode, Sol de Janeiro, Drunk Elephant, Fenty, Mario Badescu (had Ken been replaced by a Romanian counterpart?). Then it struck me, with a twinge of sadness, that my daughters had quietly moved beyond the innocent world of toys, trading them for the sophisticated realm of skincare and beauty products. Even my nine-year-old, surprisingly well-versed in the world of luxury brands, appeared caught up in this early wave of consumer savvy. It left me wondering: were they growing up too fast, or was I simply unprepared for how childhood itself has evolved? 

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    When parenting advice doesn’t work: Understanding PDA in autistic children

    2025-05-06T08:25:00Z

    “Have you tried praying more for your child?” 

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    What does God look like?

    2025-05-05T08:25:00Z

    Once upon a time, I was helping my 5-year-old brush her teeth, and she asked, “Does God have teeth?” 

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    How to raise children who know they are loved by God - and you - even when they don’t “perform”

    2025-05-02T08:25:00Z

    In part one, we explored the beautiful truth that God made sport as a gift, a joy, and a way to reflect His creativity. But let’s be honest: that can feel idealistic. We don’t live in a perfect world. Sport, like life, involves disappointment—injustices, injuries, losses, and rejection. So how do we help our children thrive in that reality?

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    Beyond the endless scroll: Protecting your teen’s heart on TikTok

    2025-04-28T08:25:00Z

    TikTok, known for its viral trends and challenges, has quickly become one of the most popular social‑media apps among young people. British teens spend an average of two hours a day on TikTok. With its creative, fast‑paced content and personalised algorithm, it’s no surprise that teens devote so much time to the app. However, such a time commitment inevitably shapes how they think, grow, and interact with the world.

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    Why God invented the game: Five faith‑filled reasons sport matters to your family

    2025-04-25T08:25:00Z

    If you’re reading this, I guess you are parenting a child who loves sport—possibly to the point of obsession. Maybe you love it too. Whether your weekends are spent on muddy sidelines or at early‑morning training sessions, you’re probably asking deeper questions about how all this sporting enthusiasm connects with your Christian faith.

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    Fiction as a faith‑builder: How Christian parents can use stories in discipleship

    2025-04-24T08:00:00Z

    Long ago, before my husband and I had children, we were staying with a family who had teenagers. Together we watched a TV series featuring an alcoholic. I was surprised that the parents allowed their young people to watch it, but the ensuing discussion proved invaluable. 

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    A Christian parent’s guide to mandatory reporting: What’s going on and why it matters

    2025-04-23T08:25:00Z

    Trigger Warning: This article contains information about child sexual abuse

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    What’s your parenting style? Are you a lawnmower?

    2025-04-22T08:25:00Z

    If you could describe your parenting as a picture, what would it be? A helicopter always circling around; a bulldozer flattening everything in your path; a gardener, carefully nurturing tender stems? 

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    Gifts not grades: Recognising every young person’s God-given talents

    2025-04-21T08:35:00Z

    The summer term in schools means different things to different ages of children and young people. For some it is the term of sports day, end of year shows, outdoor PE lessons and being allowed to play on the school field. For our older ones this term brings very different events ahead; this is the term of exams, and all that they bring with them.  

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    There is no good parenting without Good Friday

    2025-04-18T07:42:00Z

    We spend a lot of time on NexGen providing helpful, biblical, practical articles for Christian parents on all manner of subjects: films, social media, additional needs, disability, schools, awkward questions, reviews of Christian resources and much more. But the most important element in Christian parenting is you. That sounds obvious, after all the clue is in the word! But sometimes we might forget the centrality of that truth.  Your parenting starts with you. Not the skills, not the tips, not the information – you.