3 helpful qualities for Christian dads to foster this Father’s Day and beyond

On June 15^th this year, families across the nation will celebrate Father’s Day. Fatherhood is likely to bring up different emotions in families. For some – hopefully many – emotions will be positive, and the day will be a chance to give thanks for the dads within the home. For others, the day will bring up mixed emotions due to the absence of a father, or perhaps a dad’s death. Churches which engage with the Father’s Day celebration would be wise to remember these various experiences – while also encouraging dads (and male role models within the church) in their midst.

as dads we can echo the love of God by remaining engaged with our children throughout their lives

Father’s Day leads me to reflect on my own experience of having a dad. I remember his presence in the home throughout my childhood, his commitment to pursuing a vocation (as an artist) which he loved, and his modelling of faithful commitment as a husband to my mum. It’s not always the case that people share positive experiences of their fathers, so I’m grateful for all that my dad has given me!

As a father of two sons, I’m also led these days to reflect on my own being a dad. How do I want to be and act as a father to help my kids flourish, and especially to flourish as lovers of God? Three qualities come to mind: engaged presence, faithful modelling, and open communication.

One - Engaged Presence