The case for Christian parents telling their children Santa is real

Lisa Skinner thinks that having Santa as part of Christmas traditions is a fun way to engage children’s imaginations and to help them be in the world but not of the world

I believe that the way we parent is shaped heavily by how we were raised, both the parts we cherish and the parts we choose to do differently. So, when I became a parent, there was never any question that Santa would be part of our festive traditions.

Each year we have the build-up: letters are penned to the man in red in late November; two items can be requested and if Santa leaves a few surprises (which he always does), well, that’s a bonus. There is also an understanding that mum and dad send money to Santa to help cover the expense of the toys, so there is a limit to the budget.

Even as we enjoyed the fun and imagination of Santa, we always keep Jesus at the centre of it all

On Christmas Eve, treats are left out on the kitchen table for Santa and his reindeer. Stockings are placed on each child’s designated sofa, and in the morning they’re found brimming with treats, and surrounded by a joyful scatter of presents, some from Santa, some from family and friends. The tone is set for a day of joy and celebration.

Our children have always accepted that this is what Christmas looks like. We usually make one visit to see Santa before the big day, but even then they understand that ……