Ben Whitmarsh is the missional worship director at ChristChurch Bayston Hill.
’I had a messy break-up with someone in my church’
I had just started my second year of university, studying at Oxford CYM for a degree in youth and community work with applied theology, when my girlfriend of four and a half years broke up with me. All break-ups are bad and this one was no exception. In fact, this one was spectacularly unpleasant.